‘I’m a little bit of a bride’: Bride who wants to be a rock star and be the rock star she wants to become
I think a lot of people think of a rockstar bride as someone who is very driven to make their wedding special, to be one of a kind, to make something special happen.
But I think that’s really something you have to be really conscious of.
And so, if you’re thinking, “Oh, I want to be this, or I want this, I’m not going to do that,” it’s a very easy thing to fall into.
If you’re like me and you’re a rocker who’s got a lot to say, it’s much easier to just do whatever you want to do.
The way you’re able to create that emotional connection with the other person is what really makes you a rock, is you have that emotional and psychological connection that’s not going anywhere.
So, I think it’s important to have that ability to be an optimist.
And also be able to go in there and see where it takes you, and go “Oh.
I can make this happen.”
If you’ve ever had a crush on someone and they’ve been struggling with something, and you think “Oh my God, they really want me to do this, but I’m a rock and I’m doing this, so this is it.”
It’s very easy to go, “I can’t do this,” or “I’m not good enough, I can’t go that route.”
But, if there’s someone who’s in a similar situation, and they’re struggling, and it’s their wedding day, and all they’re thinking is “I don’t want to spend my wedding day with this person,” then you can’t help but say, “Hey, it can happen, I’ve got this, this is a great chance for us to really celebrate.”
And so I think you have a lot more control in the moment.
You can be a very optimistic person and just try to be the best version of yourself, and then when you go into the moment and think about your feelings about the wedding, and what’s happening, you can kind of put that aside and you can really just do your best to do the best you can for yourself and your partner.